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Asking for Help: Seeing Ourselves

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Sometimes we cannot see ourselves for who we really are.

While our compass is at our center, our community helps us to see.

What do you see in these photos? What is it about this face that moves you?

I’m curious to see what you see.

Love,

Magpie Girl

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6a00d8341c103953ef01156f73008a970c-800wiIn this photo post: The four faces of me: out of the shower, made up for the day, just before bed, making dinner.

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10 comments

1 leah { 15 Aug 2009 at 4:07 pm }

I see a tenderness and vulnerability in the top left, determination in the top right, a little bit of cautiousness mixed with some fierceness in the bottom left, and strength in the bottom right. loving that apron too. great portraits, girl!

2 Kate { 15 Aug 2009 at 4:37 pm }

Hi Rachelle,

I just started reading your blog a few weeks ago and find myself totally addicted and continually inspired! I’ve read back a little ways, but that being said, I only know a little bit about you. So my thoughts drawn from your photos aren’t super biased by a familiarity with your backstory.

Photo 1 (out of the shower): It’s like a pregame face. I see just a girl – someone who, just like every single other girl out there without exception, wakes up with hopes and worries and goals and insecurities. It’s a very vulnerable look. And it feels totally universal.

Photo 2 (makeuped): I see such confidence and thoughtfulness. It just looks like Girl #1 has just shoo’d the gremlins away and has centered herself around the hopes & goals of the day. It’s nice to see that you don’t like like a completely different person after getting all gussied up. I always feel sad for people who mask their faces too much because it’s seems as though they don’t like what’s underneath. But you’re clearly still you!

Photo 3 (before bed): I see a mom. This picture could totally be my own mother on Christmas mornings when we were kids. There’s such a beautiful sense of solid capability and strength and wisdom in this photo!

Photo 4 (making dinner): I see a girlfriend (like a girl’s girlfriend, not a guy’s ladyfriend. Like a friend who’s a girl. Okay, moving on). You just look like fun! Approachable and quirky and someone who sits around with girlfriends and has funny conversations over a glass of wine.

Kudos on the Unravelling project! Sounds really interesting.

3 The Other Laura { 15 Aug 2009 at 5:02 pm }

Wow. Beautiful and brave!

4 Roxanne { 15 Aug 2009 at 6:35 pm }

The eyes in all 4 pictures look the same. Quite serious, or perhaps pondering … save for the making dinner photo, where I see a hint of a smile. I see real, bare, unhidden in the two pics on the left, and on the right … I see the smoothness of cloaking oneself. Lovely …

5 Jenna/The Word Cellar { 15 Aug 2009 at 10:09 pm }

What I see, going clockwise from top left:

Seeker.
Artist.
Lover.
Friend.

6 amy { 15 Aug 2009 at 10:52 pm }

i see a beautiful woman. I see strong! i see cool! I see fab!

7 Michelle O'Neil { 16 Aug 2009 at 3:52 pm }

Vulnerablity.
Beauty.
Uncertianty.
Love.

Plus, kick ass red hair.

*First time visitor to your blog. Found it through Blogher.

8 Allysa { 18 Aug 2009 at 12:54 am }

I see a woman who has endured much but still has a smile to share with the world as well as wisdom born out of experience of triumph and defeat.

9 Rachelle { 18 Aug 2009 at 6:25 am }

Thank you everyone. These have really shored me up and helped me to “see.” Thanks especially to Allysa. You comment was just what I needed to keep pressing on through intimindating health issues. Resilience!!

10 la la { 21 Aug 2009 at 1:03 am }

I think it’s so facinating how I am so drawn to the picture of you looking all pretty and made up.
I was inspired by these pictures and started taking some of myself.
Again, I am most comfortable when I look “PRETTY.”

Urg. I just wanna turn off that part of my brain.

I’ve been able to battle it enough so that I don’t look pretty every day – I don’t wear makeup – I don’t concern myself overly with clothes. But, then I don’t wanna look in the mirror or take pictures of myself – like I can’t face the evidence.

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