Hello Loves,
You are probably wondering where *8Things and The DO LESS Revolution are this week. The answer is “late,” that’s all just late.
You see my dear hubby is in the States which means I am single parenting, with migraines, in what can only be described as B.Y.O.A. rainfall (Bring Your Own Ark)—which of course, I must navigate on foot-or-bike because somewhere along the line somebody got the bright idea to move to Europe and live car-free. (Oh yeah that somebody would be me. Well, at least I have very VERY cute rainboots.)
So taking a page from my own DO LESS advice book, I’m narrowing my tasks for the week down to basic survival skills which include: feeding the children, clothing the children, and trying to keep myself from being bludgeoned to death by the children’s all-drama-all-the-time emotional states. (I wanted girls, right?) So *8Things and DO LESS are coming, just not until the weekend. And when they do could y’all please leave me lots of comments because I’m kinda in THAT kind of headspace right now—oh yeah, the needies.
Before I go, I would like to introduce you to Tiffani Electra X, owner of the charming TartX and maker of art. I want to give Tiffani big props for introducing me to the concept of BWO, Blogging Without Obligation, in which we people who work-for-free cease to beat ourselves up when we don’t show up to the virtual page for a day or two. Tiffani’s theory is that if you don’t beat yourself up about when you blog (or don’t, as the case may be) you’ll blog longer, write better, and give the world more love.
Amen, sisterfriend.
Tiffani’s art at Tartx is fantastically off the beaten path and a good fit for anyone who regularly flings themselves down the rabbit hole. It’s romantic and goth at the same time—a little bit like an Alice in Wonderland tea party, if maybe you like your tea with the tiniest smidge of arsenic. I highly recommend you take a little foray over to her place while you wait around for me to come back from the Mad Hatters. (Do you think I could woo her over here? That would be lovely! I DO so love a good crush!)
Much love to you all.
Magpie Girl
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Looking forward to chasing down the links you mention later, but just wanted to say BRAVA for living the Do Less philosophy.
Now I’m off, armed with rubber gloves, toxic hazard gear (joking) and cleaning stuff, to join my sister in tackling her 19-year-old son’s bedroom while he’s off at a festival. We’ve promised we’ll get it sorted then HE has to do it from now. Yeah right.
Absolutely – when you’re single parenting, you just have to make sure the essentials are met. Food, sleep, etc.
And I want to say, I pretty much live in Do Less land right now, thankfully, but you’re making me think about my Soultribe. I’ve been grieving because it’s changed so, but I am trying to adjust my thinking & realize that new lovely ones have been slowly gliding into place…so thank you for that. Rachelle, you rock.
How bout I just send you some rain-free hugs? And let you know–you are so not alone–especially w the I wanted girls right issue!
I understand-far too well!
Oh Rachelle,
You absolutely made my night! How very sweet of you! I really appreciate the kind words – you so Rock!
Have a lovely rest of the weekend! Xo, Tiffini X
I like survival mode. It happens. No guilt, no guilt ever.
And you are totally right about the way we beat ourselves up for not being perfect even in what we do just for the joy/love/fun of it.
Maybe we should all do a blog silence at a specified time… but then I don’t like the idea of being offline, and of not having my beloved blogs to read. Forget that idea.
But vacations are a good idea.
The needies… I so understand. But good for you for the BWO.